Tuesday, July 24, 2012

When you do not want


What goes through our heads when we maintain a relationship despite knowing for sure that we do not want?

Self-deception or expect to happen is one of the most "humiliating" for a person, as it ceases to be yourself to become what the other wants.

In fact, what is at stake is your person and your dignity.

Wake up! Do not you deserve.

If the power of the relationship is on the other, is when you think that something is wrong. The power means no dependency and make the other depends on you. If your partner can do without you, much easier than what you can do, we must balance the issue.

A healthy relationship consists of a balance of power in the same by the partners. In certain aspects, each member can have that power, that is more qualified to do so, but never going to be "king" of the relationship altogether.

If you look at it, an honest person would never be with someone who does not love to take advantage of certain benefits, be it comfort, money, etc. company.

If there is a relationship of love from a member, you can negotiate an agreement? The answer is no, hope can be a bad counselor. It is clear that if a person doubts the love of another, does not really have that feeling.

If you're still waiting for a resurrection of love, willing to respond to any situation, keep it clear, you've gone too far.

And if so, feel dissatisfied in your relationship, there's your solution, any member has to go.

True happiness is in balance, can be hard to start a new life, but do not forget that love is not everything, there are areas in life that deserve much more punishment, as the family foundation of our emotional lives.

Do not hesitate! Find your own happiness.

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